Calm day, until now

For the first time since last week, the day didn't start badly. Hsb and I even talked, without him getting angry, without me getting upset.
Although I nearly did, and I could just stop myself in time, not to get wound up.

I was able to tell myself not to blame him, "simply" just because that's the way he thinks.

And that made me say things in a very calm way, without being obnoxious or hurtful.


Really, it's a wonderful feeling when you impress yourself.

J